tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6217618441904059968.post4375639566319789934..comments2024-01-26T15:55:13.708+05:30Comments on Audi Alteram Partem: Living Our Life For OurselvesGanesh Puttuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13208083828467510958noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6217618441904059968.post-18618153307383007992012-09-24T09:15:22.873+05:302012-09-24T09:15:22.873+05:30I was reading this hub (post), The Busy Canvas and...I was reading this hub (post), <a href="http://neeti911.hubpages.com/hub/The-busy-canvas" rel="nofollow">The Busy Canvas</a> and I was reminded of this blog-post of yours.<br />-OTThe Visitorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06379204603893147923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6217618441904059968.post-84600307124062582952012-09-23T11:53:48.681+05:302012-09-23T11:53:48.681+05:30Thanks Ramya...and way to go....you are already ah...Thanks Ramya...and way to go....you are already ahead of us all- on the curve...i hope more people focus on their own lives instead of waiting around for bad things to happen in their ex'es lives. kinda pointless if you ask me..Ganesh Puttuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13208083828467510958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6217618441904059968.post-88506576116264707062012-09-23T11:52:24.064+05:302012-09-23T11:52:24.064+05:30i agree jaishree and all of us have had that guilt...i agree jaishree and all of us have had that guilty pleasure at sometime or the other, but to wait around our whole life, looking to hear the bad news of another's life is kinda pointless wastage of time in my opinion..better to move on and get on with life..and if,,you do happen to hear accidentally something bad happening to the other, go on, enjoy it for sometime....but dont dwell all the time on it..is what i wanted to convey through this post.Ganesh Puttuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13208083828467510958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6217618441904059968.post-40537566366174616722012-09-23T11:47:33.285+05:302012-09-23T11:47:33.285+05:30i am not against using the power of hate/anger to ...i am not against using the power of hate/anger to achieve something..but to credit it for all our success is kinda creepy..for then the only way you can ever achieve something in your life is to be constantly angry at someone or something..which is a pathetic kind of existence. This girl was just not sublimating her hatred, she was flaunting it as the source of all her achievement.Ganesh Puttuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13208083828467510958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6217618441904059968.post-40588271856458406042012-09-22T23:01:08.887+05:302012-09-22T23:01:08.887+05:30:) Recently having begged for forgiveness, this po...:) Recently having begged for forgiveness, this post holds so perfect for me!!! :D yes as u said making peace with the past and falling in love with beautiful life ahead is all that takes to be happy :) Good post!!!<br /><br />Followed you via Kappu :D Ramyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04853439096038019882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6217618441904059968.post-45779427211096023052012-09-21T12:12:59.144+05:302012-09-21T12:12:59.144+05:30Hi Ganesh
Point well put and yes I like your idea...Hi Ganesh<br /><br />Point well put and yes I like your idea of word limit :) Holding on to grudges is not good, that way we are allowing those who hurt us to win and affect us. We cant control circumstances but we can control how we react. Any person will only hurt us once, but by remembering about it again and again we hurt ourselves a multitude of times. Having said that its really not possible to forget the occasions we were hurt. We can avoid clinging on to it and crying over it or keep referring to it even when it helped positively as in this case. But if something bad befalls the person who hurt us, most of us would definitely think "This is what happens when you...." and think of the instances when they hurt us. Arent we all like that?Jayashree Srivatsanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07187741357853447742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6217618441904059968.post-51078009777506133012012-09-20T21:50:09.842+05:302012-09-20T21:50:09.842+05:30Ganesh - I agree with what you say, that one shoul...Ganesh - I agree with what you say, that one should forgive, forget and move on. However, strange as it may seem, the human mind (ego) responds in different ways when its desires are not met. I'm sure you're aware of ego-defense mechanisms, one of which is "Sublimation", where one converts one's negative feelings into positive action. Perhaps it is a manifestation of this sublimation that has resulted in positive action.<br /><br />-OTAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6217618441904059968.post-79461162504948338122012-09-19T22:36:26.849+05:302012-09-19T22:36:26.849+05:30yep..exactly Karpagam...when she has so many achie...yep..exactly Karpagam...when she has so many achievements- she just need one more- to forget and move on...Ganesh Puttuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13208083828467510958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6217618441904059968.post-61501291877735314752012-09-19T22:22:29.316+05:302012-09-19T22:22:29.316+05:30Why you wallow in the muck of memories! whoa well ...Why you wallow in the muck of memories! whoa well said bro, read her blog - yes she seems to be a very phonexian to have come out of all that trouble. But as you say, why linger when you can shatter em!! :) <br /><br />Kappuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10030279740286774339noreply@blogger.com